Trust: Important Element in Relationship

If you boil relationships down to the most important element, it’s always going to be trust — not leadership, value, partnership, or anything else. If you don’t have trust, your relationship is in trouble.

In his book On Becoming a Leader, Warren Bennis says, “Integrity is the basis of trust, which is not so much an ingredient of leadership as it is a product. It is the one quality that cannot be acquired but must be earned. It is given by coworkers and followers, and without it, the leader can’t function.”

That can be said not only of leaders and followers, but also of all relationships. Developing trust is like constructing a building. It takes time, and it must be done one piece at a time. As in construction, it’s much quicker and easier to tear something down than it is to build it up. But if the foundation is strong, there is a good chance that what is built upon it will stand.

When two people trust each other completely, the relationship can grow to a level of friendship that is as rewarding as anything in life. It reaches the highest heights. Writer and chaplain to Queen Victoria, Charles Kingsley, said, “A blessed thing it is for any man or woman to have a friend, one human soul whom we can trust utterly, who knows the best and worst of us, and who loves us in spite of all our faults.”

—Winning with People – John Maxwell

SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY AS YOU WORK WITH OTHERS TODAY AND EVERY DAY.

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